Really need help finding real parents.?

Oh aren't you great helping her out & being so supportive. I was in a similar situation wanting to find my parents & it took me a few years to do it slowly but it was a good way to do it because it wasn't a rush of emotions. The way i did it was through yahoo chat rooms. I started chatting & making friends asking them about family names etc. I ended up with a small circle of chat friends who actually wanted to help me & every time i logged on I had another clue from my internet friends.It got to the point where one of my friends had a list of 5 phone numbers that he said he was happy to call for me & chase up. I decided to back off. A year later I asked this chat friend to make the calls & bingo found my dad. To this day 8 years on we are still chat friends. Have never met the guy but he & others were great. I will always appreciate what they did for me. If you want to go that way let me know will be happy to help out! good luck !